Frequently asked questions
How much does Homo Amans cost?
The book costs US$37, one payment. Taxes may apply at checkout.
Is this therapy?
No. Homo Amans is a popular science book based on affective neuroscience. It complements your self-discovery process and can be a great ally if you're in therapy, but it does not replace the relationship with a mental health professional. If you're going through something that overwhelms you, we recommend seeking therapeutic support.
Does it work if I'm single?
Yes. Understanding your patterns when no one is triggering them can help you recognize them the next time you meet someone.
What if I'm in a relationship?
It helps too. If you're in a relationship where certain dynamics keep repeating, this book can help you understand what's activating them and how to approach them differently.
What if I'm more anxious or more avoidant?
The book describes both anxious and avoidant attachment, along with the secure style, and what each looks for in the other. Wherever you place yourself, you will find your side in its pages.
What format do I receive it in?
You'll receive the book in two digital formats: PDF and EPUB, compatible with Kindle, your phone, tablet, and any e-reader. You'll also get access to My Library, your online reading space: there you can read the book directly and use the 4 bonuses as interactive tools, not just download them as PDFs.
Can I read it on my phone?
Yes. The PDF and EPUB open on phones, tablets and e-readers, and My Library installs on your phone directly from the browser, with no app store involved. The reader saves your reading position, so you can pick up where you left off.
What is My Library?
Your personal reading space: a lightweight app that installs on your phone from the browser, with no account or password required. You get in with the link sent to your email. Inside is the full book with a reader that saves your progress, plus the 4 bonuses in interactive form: the test shows your pattern with immediate results, "Before You Write to Him" includes the guided breathing practice, and you can track your pattern history.
How long does it take to read the whole thing?
It depends on your pace. It has fifteen chapters plus an introduction and a conclusion: you can read it straight through or go chapter by chapter.
How is it different from self-love books?
It doesn't ask you to love yourself more. It explains how your brain built its idea of love and what to do with that in practice. Here you'll find mechanisms, explanations, and concrete tools, not motivational quotes.
Does it have real scientific backing?
It draws on attachment theory and neuroscience. It is not an academic paper: it is a popular science book meant to be read anywhere.
How do I receive it after paying?
Immediately. As soon as your payment is confirmed, you'll get access to the download page with the book in PDF and EPUB and the 4 bonuses, and you'll receive an email with the link to My Library so you can read and use the tools from there. One click, no password. Secure checkout by Paddle.
Who processes the payment?
Paddle, which acts as the Merchant of Record: it charges your payment method, handles sales tax and issues your receipt. Aureliai SpA creates and publishes the content.
Is there a money-back guarantee?
Yes: 14 calendar days from the date of purchase. If the book is not for you, ask for a refund and you get your money back, with no reason needed. The refund goes back to the payment method you used, issued by Paddle. We confirm your request and pass it to Paddle within 5 business days of receiving it. The steps are on the refund policy page.
Can I see a sample before buying?
Yes. You can read the sample online with no sign-up, or download it as a PDF or EPUB, on the sample page.
How many chapters does the book have?
Fifteen numbered chapters, plus an introduction and a conclusion.
What is "Before you text them"?
A seven-minute practice to bring the activation down before you send that message. There is a short free PDF version: you download it on the page itself after leaving your email.
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